To solve this problem at least once in a life it was necessary to each woman. Certainly, a situation is not very pleasant. Some after break up with partner some women fall into the deep depression; some start to drink, and some start to sleep with each man. But any of these methods will not help to forget your partner for the sake of whom you lived and made plans on the further home life.
So what to do, when you break up with your partner? I wish to give to your some advice about this matter. Certainly it is not the instruction to actions, and it is simple variants of the decision of a problem.
Variant the first: you love him and not going to give him other woman. To begin with calm down, and think what you could do incorrectly. I assure, each of us in something “goes too far”, especially while starts to think (wrongly) that the beloved will bear everything, what you do. Have you understood what was wrong into your relations? Urgently begin to work on your behavior. Further find time for visiting beauty salon, make a new hair dress, problem it will not solve a problem, but will raise the mood! Also I advise you simply, accidentally, appear in those places (cafe or discos) where your partner usually goes. But do not try to start to find out why he has left you. Greet him and sit down other table, behave, as if he does not interest you at all. You also can flirt with other guys and if he still loves you will necessarily return to you.
Variant the second: your ex partner has left to other girl and it seems, he loves her. In this situation you should find out if he loves your rival or this is just a game for him, after all men by the nature polygamous, and they like to win other females. If he does not love her, you have a chance (look a variant the first), but in a case if he really loves her, I advise you simply to recede and not to be degraded. I understand that when you love, you forget about pride and self-respect at once. Certainly, you will suffer for some time, and can even cry, but time treats. Such means are already checked up by time, therefore, when you have broken up with your partner, simply wait.
Variant the third: probably you don’t love him anymore. After all it could be, you have simply got used to that he was near to you. In this case it is not necessary to advise anything. You will forget him very fast and will find the new boyfriend. And he will be exactly cleverer and more attractive than your ex, and the most important thing, he will love you, despite of all whims! At your break up with partner will help you to begin new and happy life.
It is almost impossible to escape the cases when you have to face the how to get your ex back situation. The biggest mistake here is that people think too seriously about how to get your ex back, instead of putting this whole story in another way. It is not about how to get your ex back, really. This is about how to make it exciting again.